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Why having a relationship is important during a crisis

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I know what you’re thinking. The world is falling apart. People are out of work. Countries have instilled marshal law. And dating is the most important thing right now?

The answer, if you are reading this with a roof over your head, is yes. Double yes if you have a lot of money and are in peak physical shape, aka Batman! This comes down to a basic hierarchy of needs that every person has. Here is this psychology applies to you and why you should be taking your dating life seriously.

Relationships keep you safe in a crisis

You need to make dating and relationships a top priority and it starts with Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. Abraham Maslow published “A Theory of Human Motivation” in 1943. He stated that humans have a hierarchy of needs that has to be met in order for us to achieve our fullest potential. Dating is a core part of this, but there are other necessities that must be covered first.

The very first thing that has to be taken care of is safety. I like to think that you aren’t being chased by a hungry Tiger as you read this. If you are being chased by a Tiger, see Batman reference above, double yes on dating again. By ensuring you are out of harm’s way and not in any danger you allow your basic instincts to relax. This opens up the next level of thinking.

Don’t let the crisis impact your life.

Keep in mind that on a subconscious level the only thing that matters to you, or any other human alive is survival of genetics. By avoiding that hungry Tiger you can move into the next stage of survival. Now you can access foresight and process thoughts like “how do I have shelter and food to stay alive?” Cover those needs or your subconscious mind will not allow you to perform well at other tasks. This is why money is a huge stress on relationships. Relationships can’t be enjoyed until you’ve secured food and shelter.

This is why handling your dating life is the most important thing you can do right now. If you are reading this that means you have access to the internet, are not being chased by a Tiger, and are not dying of starvation. You are safe from immediate danger and have the luxury to read this through a 1st world device. It’s time to move through the next step to clear out high-level problems.

A crisis is the best thing that can happen for your relationship: Click here to learn more!

Relationships connect to survival instincts

Remember how I mentioned genetic survival? The next part of genetic survival is reproduction. Getting that promotion and making more money is not important on a genetic level. Not until your genes are 100% certain they can reproduce. This includes securing a relationship if you already have a partner. Once there is a fracture in your need for Love and Belonging stress becomes much more powerful.

This is where my passion to help you and so many others with their dating lives comes in. I want you to make it through this current crisis and any other crisis in the future. You will have the skills to make good decisions while everyone else is in panic. But you must secure your love life first!

Keep your relationship healthy and make the best decisions during a crisis.

Handle a crisis with superhuman brain power

Now that we’ve covered the basics I know what you’re thinking. “Well, Batman doesn’t have a partner and he’s as successful as it gets.” First of all, it’s a cartoon! Second of all, he inherited everything he has and Daddy Wayne, was far from single.

If you feel stuck right now, I have a gift for you. I hosted an exclusive online class that explains more of this topic in depth. We charge a lot of money to have access to the type of lecture I gave in this class. Because of the Corona Virus, we decided to record this class and give it to as many people as we possibly can for free!

You can watch it for free by clicking this link for your free copy: Click here to access the free class.

Once you watch this class you will have everything you need to keep your relationships strong in a crisis. If your dating life is being impacted by a crisis, watch this free class.

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